Thursday, April 3, 2025

The power of language

My dad and I go to the rehab center twice a day to feed my mother lunch and dinner. We're becoming more familiar with both the staff and the patients, and they're all a wonderful bunch of people.

Today the speech therapist stopped by to tell us what kinds of exercises she's doing with my mother. In a way, Mom is having to learn to speak again. When she does talk, her speech is slow and mumbled. The speech therapist is teaching her how to say certain important phrases: "I'm hungry." "I'm tired." "I need to use the bathroom." Etc.

So today, as I fed my mother some puréed food, Mom turned her head, looked directly at Dad, and said indistinctly, "I love you."

You can imagine my father's reaction. The power of language.

8 comments:

  1. Oh, that is wonderful! Brings tears to my eyes.

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  2. What a wonderful story. Thank you for sharing, Patrice.

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  3. The joy you must have knowing your parents love each other that deeply and that you are a product of that love.

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  4. Such a beautiful legacy your parent’s marriage leaves on all who know them.

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  5. Ok, that brought tears to my eyes.

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  6. I know exactly what your dad felt. My husband, who had a stroke in October, has lost his ability to speak. Every once in a while he will also look at me a say very distinctly, I Love You. It makes my heart sing.

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